When you plant a small tree, it is wise to erect a fence around it so that animals don't eat it and people don't inadvertently trample it. When the trees grows large enough, the fence can then be removed since the tree can easily stand on its own. Care for yourself in a similar way.
Support yourself by seeking the company of people who are also dedicated to personal growth. Surround yourself with a community of conscious friends. By having a network of emotional support in your life, you'll get touched, and hugged, and listened to, whenever you need it.
Release negative influences from your life. Disengage from people who are constantly negative or perpetually critical and destructive with their words, thoughts and deeds. Only after you regard yourself as a pillar of strength may you wish to return to that type of company to perhaps show them a better way of living.
~ Let it be easy (pp. 120) by Tolly Burkan
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